Could fewer arguments with your spouse signal a divorce?

Couples in high-conflict marriages may feel like they argue and disagree all of the time. They may also have heard that this level of conflict is often a predictor of divorce.

If they stop arguing, then, does that mean that their relationship is getting better and they’re going to save the marriage? Or, does it actually just mean that divorce is closer than ever? Here’s what you should know.

A sudden lull in marital conflict can mean two different things

As counterintuitive as it may sound, the truth is that a lack of arguing can signal either a big improvement in a couple’s relationship or the imminent end of that relationship altogether. That’s why it’s so important to consider the key factors that are unique to your marriage. It could be that your arguments have stopped because things are on the mend, and that may mean that you’re not going to split up after all.

On the other hand, though, one major red flag that means divorce is coming is when you spouse becomes apathetic. They may become less combative simply because they don’t want to win the argument or save the marriage and they know they’re just going to file for divorce in the near future.

When you think divorce is on the horizon, protect yourself

Issues in a marriage can be confusing, and warning signs of divorce look different for everyone. What is certain is that you must know what legal options you have if you’re going to split with your spouse. Speaking with an a legal professional now can help you understand the issues at stake and what steps you should consider taking today — even if you aren’t sure in which direction your marriage is heading.